Every parent wants to teach kids the Golden Rule, but it can be hard to know where to start. Jesus gave us a simple answer in Matthew 7:12: treat others the way you want to be treated. At Asher Reign, that idea sits at the heart of every story. Kindness and courage grow best at home, so here are five simple ways to begin.
What Is the Golden Rule, and Why Does It Matter?
The Golden Rule is easy to say and harder to live out. For a child, it means noticing how others feel and then choosing to be kind. It also means forgiving a friend and including someone who feels left out.
Because children learn by doing, they need daily chances to practice. As a result, small moments at the dinner table, on the playground, and on the field become lessons in faith. The Asher books by Jami Jacobs give families a gentle way to talk about courage, kindness, and trusting God.
5 Ways to Teach Kids the Golden Rule at Home
1. Ask “How Would You Feel?”
First, pause when your child has a conflict. Ask, “How would you feel if that happened to you?” This simple question helps children see through someone else’s eyes. Then, talk about one kind thing they could do next.
2. Pray Together
Prayer gives children a calm way to think about others. For example, you can thank God for a friend at bedtime, or pray for someone who had a hard day. Also, praying for your child shows them they are never alone.
3. Read Stories That Show Kindness
Stories let kids practice kindness safely. In the Soccer Edition, Asher learns that true leadership comes from kindness, humility, and good sportsmanship. In the Lacrosse Edition, he learns that a great teammate is about more than scoring goals. After reading, ask your child what Asher did well, and what they would do the same way.
4. Practice Kindness in Play and Sports
Games are full of Golden Rule moments. Kids can cheer for a teammate, include a new player, or shake hands after a loss. However, they need you to point these moments out. So when you see kindness, name it, and praise the choice, not the win.
5. Model It Yourself
Children copy what they see. Therefore, show them how you apologize, forgive, and speak kindly when you are tired. Even when you make a mistake, saying “I’m sorry” teaches more than any lecture. Over time, your example becomes their habit.
Why Courage and Kindness Go Together
Some kids find kindness hard because they feel nervous or afraid. For example, a worried child may not feel brave enough to talk to someone new. That is why courage matters too.
In Fear Not: Asher’s Invisible Shield, Asher learns that God is his shield, even when he cannot see it. The story is rooted in Psalm 3:3. Because Asher feels safe, he can begin to reach out to others. In the same way, a child who feels loved and protected finds it easier to be kind.
3 Questions to Ask Your Child This Week
- Who did you help or include today?
- How do you think your friend felt when that happened?
- What is one kind thing we can do for someone tomorrow?
Try one question at dinner or before bed. Then, let your child answer without correcting. Listening shows them their thoughts matter.
Keep Learning with Asher
Looking for more ideas? Visit Asher’s Adventure Zone for fun Christian activities for kids. You can also read how Asher met his best friend and how he made new friends at school. Have a question or a story to share? Contact Jami Jacobs, and browse the shop to find the right book for your family.